Fat on Phat Violence

Disclaimer:   the following post contains multiple, continuous and flagrantly shameless use of the words: fuck, bitch, and FAT If any of these words offend you or if you're one of my former English teachers please navigate away from this page now.  All others hedonist, pill poppers, thrill seekers, of those of a painfully curious nature please...

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Question for the ladies.

The few times my fiance used to give me oral sex, I would always have to be freshly shaven and i'd have to be either just out of the shower, or just have douched...my question is, how do YOU prepare to recieve oral sex ladies?

What is the best lube in your opinion?

My fiance and I usually need a little lube to get us started when we decide to food around, because unless i'm HUGELY turned on, I don't get too wet...and we can't seem to find any reular lube that works for us. The first kind we tried was the KY Yours/Mine lube. It doesn't create fireworks when it combines like they say, in fact, it sucks as far as that goes, but they are a GREAT lube just as a regular lube. We don't even use them toghether anymore, we just grab one and go, because it feels the same, whether you combine them or not, but it is a GREAT lube...its just really expensive. We've also tried regular Astroglide, and we discovered after using it a few times, that it's yeast infection central for me, I can't figure out why.

I've seen the brand called "Wet" lube at walmart and have thought about trying it, but I decided to get recommendations first.
We don't want anything that smells, or anything that's sticky, we prefer something that comes off with water, or hand sanitizer, preferably something that comes in a good amount without spending a lot...trust me, if Sam's Club sold economy lube for cheap, we'd shop for it there lol
  • mazora

DVD Stimulus, please :-)

After way too long (how long...finally tossed out my last video tapes!!!) I am looking to up date my sex film knowledge and wonder where to go on web to find the hottest big sex DVDs...All help is asked for on the subject~teehee.

Mazora :-)

PS ~ Being a woman of color I wouldn't mind finding some of those either!
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FFF Volunteers Sought

Hey Everybody…

The Winter Fetish Fair Fleamarket™ is fast approaching, and we need YOU for FFF™#32! (February 13th through 15th 2009, Valentine's Day/Presidents Day weekend) in Providence, RI.

We're putting out the call for volunteers to help with the Flea. For anyone who doesn't know, running a successful Flea is highly dependent on the generous labor of our many volunteers -- without you, we wouldn't be able to do what we do. We'll need help loading-in vendors and loading them out at the end of the weekend, and everything in between -- door monitors, ID & wristband checkers, meal helpers, exit pollsters, and more.

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Merry X-Mas to me?

I am thinking of buying a dildo for myself. I was wondering if anyone had a suggestion for some safe web sites to order from, you know, discrete and not too expensive? I just want a plain old fashioned cock replacement, but perhaps longer than the typical ones, since I have to reach around a large belly! This is the only time of year I can get a package in the mail and not face the Spanish inquisition as to what it might be! lol! So I thought I should take advantage! Thanks in advance!

SF Area Folks, Come to A Benefit for Candye Kane!

[Cross posted like crazy]

Hey y'all, you want to have a rousing BBW good time? Hob-nob with bay area freaks you've only read about online? Be in the same room with that über-freak-geek, Yohannon, and watch him drool at countless examples of living large hotness?

Better yet: You wanna see what Roni's wearing under that VERY pink coat?

Teh Hawtness!

Then come out to The Rio next Wednesday, July 23rd!

For The Love of Candye: A Benefit for Candye Kane

On July 23rd friends and fans of Candye Kane will come together to stage a benefit at The El Rio (3159 Mission Street) to help raise much-needed funds for Candye's medical bills and treatment. Candye Kane may still be a well-kept mainstream secret but in most underground circles, her diva status is legendary. She has been making music professionally for over two decades and toured worldwide since 1992, performing for amazingly diverse audiences. Playing at the French Embassy in Rome for the President of Italy, headlined the Rhythm Riot, a rockabilly and R&B festival in the UK, and belted it out alongside Ray Charles at the Cognac Blues Festival. Also, Candye is an activist for several causes such as: queer rights, sex worker rights, size/body/fat acceptance, health care, and has worked with United By Music.

On April 18, 2008 Candye Kane underwent surgery to remove a Carcinoid tumor, which is a rare type of pancreatic - neuroendocrine cancer. As an artist Candye Kane doesn’t have health insurance. All proceeds will go to the Candye Kane Cancer Fund for the mounting medical bills to lighten the financial burden.

“Her generosity in spirit, love of performance, and inimitable gift for singing creates lifelong fans. Candye is outspoken not only about the needs of others, and asking for contributions from the heart, but also when she is in need”, says Lady Monster, event producer. “When I think of love, I think of Candye - and how much love so many have for her.”

As a tribute to Candye Kane all performers will be performing songs by Candye Kane. Scheduled to perform at The El Rio on July 23 to raise funds For The Love of Candye are Mr. Lucky with special guest Ralph Carney, Joshua Raoul Brody and Veronica Klaus. Also, artists Annie Sprinkle, Kitten on the Keys, Trauma Flintstone, Alotta Boutte, King TuffNStuff, Diamond Daggers Burlesque, Leslie Presley, Velvet Siren, and Dottie Lux will be amongst the phenomenal list of 25 performers and contributors. Lady Monster and Dr. Carol Queen are the MCs.

"I interviewed Candye about body image issues for my book Exhibitionism for the Shy; later, Candye and I shared the stage many times at Hooker's Balls, sex worker rights benefits, and I was privileged to book her shows at The Center for Sex & Culture,” says Dr. Carol Queen, founder of CSC, writer and cultural sexologist. “CSC is co-sponsoring this benefit because our community loves Candye so much and she is such an inspirational sex-positive, body-positive activist. We just can't imagine the world without Candye Kane!"

All Candye, All Night –BBQ Pit! Bake Sale! Raffle Items! Drink Specials!

Wednesday, July 23rd. The El Rio. 3159 Mission Street, San Francisco.
Doors: 7pm. Show: 8pm. Admission is $10 - $20 sliding scale. 21+ Only.

For more information please contact Lady Monster at: ladymonster@earthlink.net or visit www.myspace.com/fortheloveofcandye
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Hello All!

It's been a while since I've posted but this past weekend I received an invite to a toy burn out and realized that it's been a while since I've up dated my toy box! And being a reminiscing soul, as I looked through my "old friends" I remembered a fat sex masturbation celebration and few formats ago (several years and counting!) and thought to myself...What better place to see if anyone is talking about their latest toys and the joys they've offered, than that community in the know...Fat Sex!

So! Have there been any good times had in self pleasuring that can be shared? And where do I find that "pleasures-all"! Teehee!

Back to practicing for the event!

Mazora :-)

Hey maybe we should start a poll!
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